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St. Matthew's United Methodist Church 14900 Annapolis Road, Bowie, MD 20715 (301) 262-1408 |
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"Our Silent Communicatior"
Sermon Preached By Rev. Richard E. Stetler - March 10, 2002 Psalm 23; Ephesians 5:8-14 The
text this morning that we are going to examine comes from Paul's
letter to the Ephesians. He
wrote, "You yourselves used to be in the darkness, but since you
have become the Lord's people, you are in the light. (You now have
understanding about the purpose of life)
So you must live like people who belong to the light, for it is
this spirit that brings a rich harvest of every kind of goodness,
righteousness and truth."
Paul was describing the evolving identity of his readers who
had become new followers of Jesus' teachings.
He was telling them of the importance of communicating through
their new awareness. He
told them that when they do, there is an incredible harvest of
everything any human being could ever want.
All of us have been witnesses to what Paul described either in
our own experience or from someone else.
Late last Saturday afternoon I went to Starbucks at Freestate
mall to buy a pound of breakfast blend coffee to give as a gift.
Behind the counter was a woman who was radiating this beautiful
spirit with every customer. She
was using everything she had to touch people, i.e., her eyes, her body
language, her words and smiles. Each
person could not help but feel good as they turned to leave the store.
When it was my turn, I commented about her skill and ability to
do this. I said,
"Here it is 4:30 in the afternoon and you are as energetic and
engaging as you probably were at 10:00 this morning."
She said, "Oh, thank you!
I drink a lot of Starbucks' coffee."
Hearing this exchange was a young man who also was working
behind the counter. He
commented, "Don't
believe her! She comes to
work like that and she leaves work like that everyday!"
What a gift!
As I considered my conversation with her, none of her customers
could have possibly known any of the details of what she believes.
They would not know if she attends church. They could not tell
how many of life's unfortunate circumstances may currently be swirling
around her. All they understood is that her magnetism was contagious and
brought them close to her so they could experience her friendship.
She was an absolute delight. Every one of us enjoys being engaged by such a person, even if we are shy and reserve. Even if we want to sit in the back pew and do not wish to be greeted by anyone. Some people come here on Sunday mornings just to check us out and they fear that if someone gets their name, they might come calling. Even those of us who think like that enjoy when others enable us to feel comfortable in a new setting.
This spirit is what Paul was describing when he wrote, ". .
. it is this spirit that brings a rich harvest of every kind of
goodness, righteousness and truth."
It is contagious and spreads to others.
And sometimes we do not need to speak for our spirit to be
understood. A loving spirit
does not need a lot of words to communicate. It shows. When
Lois and I were flying back and forth to Arizona a couple of weeks ago,
American West was charging $5.00 for its headsets. We never pay for this service and yet sometimes those
in-flight movies capture our attention.
We find ourselves watching them.
What we have discovered is that we do not have to hear the sound
track to know the mood of the actors and what is happening in the story.
If we spoke to members of the deaf community about this ability,
no doubt they would inform us that there is very little about life that
they miss because they cannot hear.
They are able to understand nuances of spirit that most of us
cannot. They have
sensitivities many of us do not have.
Each of us has a spirit that communicates loud and clear even
though we may not make a sound. How
do we become the kind of people that Paul described?
Many of us are carrying emotional baggage.
We know of teenagers who feel unloved, under appreciated and
misunderstood. We have
spouses who never developed quality communication skills.
We have retirees who begin to worry about health issues.
We have people who fear no one would like them if others knew
"who they really are." The Apostle Paul guides us through
every venue of our experience with the same invitation.
Paul told his readers to bring these feelings and thought
patterns out into the light. In other words, own them.
Declare them as yours. Stop
imagining the worst-case scenario of what might happen when we do this.
Share this emotional baggage with others.
Bring it all out into the light so that its true nature can be
seen for what it is. Paul added these words, ". . . for anything that is
clearly revealed becomes light. That
is why it is said, 'Wake up, sleeper, rise from death and Christ will
shine on you.'" What
do these words mean?
When I was a little boy, I remember very vividly an incident that
cured me forever of my fear of darkness and the fears associated with
being alone. One night I
was home by myself. I had been sick and my parents would not allow me to
attend an event that involved the rest of the family.
I decided that I wanted to be rid of such fears even if I died
during the process. This event seems so petty now, but at the time what
I did became a life and death moment of truth for me.
After turning out all the lights, my game plan was to walk
through the house that was now in total darkness.
I planned to begin my journey from my upstairs bedroom and walk
to the basement, touch the back of the toilet and then find my way back
to my room. I remember being extremely apprehensive as I started; fully
believing that something unknown lurking in the darkness was going to
get me. I prepared myself
for death.
As I made my way down the stairs, all the creaking sounds in the
house were amplified. My heart was pounding. My
breathing became irregular. I
was doing fine until I arrived at the bottom of the basement stairs.
As I walked toward the bathroom, something slimy slapped me in
the face. Instinctively I
brought my arm up and knocked whatever it was out of the way.
I froze as my mind created all kinds of images of what that was.
I waited for what seemed an eternity, immobilized by fear.
After regaining my composure, I ventured forward to complete my
task.
I made this trip three times that night and was cured.
Of course, my curiosity got the best of me.
I had to discover what had struck me in the face.
I turned on the basement light to investigate. The fierce, human-devouring creature I had imagined, turned
out to be a wet spaghetti string mop my mother had hung over the
basement clothesline to dry. When
I brought the focus of my fear into the light, it lost its power. The
Apostle Paul indicated this was possible for all the baggage we carry.
This teaching must have been in circulation in the early Church
because Paul wrote, "That is why it is said, 'Wake up, sleeper, and
rise from death, and Christ will shine on you.'"
The quote Paul used is most interesting.
He must have heard it repeatedly among the early followers of
Jesus.
The secret to our success in this area of life is to step forward
and place what distresses us into the light.
When our growth stops, quite often we are the ones who have done
that. No one else has such
power over us. What is so intriguing is that generally it is our beliefs
that cause this condition. Drag
such beliefs into the light and examine them.
Take the aging process as a prime example.
We look at these older bodies of ours and say, "I cannot
contribute anymore," or, "I've paid my dues.
Now it is someone else's turn."
The reason people grow old has more to do with this belief
than the age of their bodies. A
truth that many of us find difficult to understand is that our spirits
never age.
Galileo was still publishing his writings at the age of 74.
Michelangelo was 71 when he was appointed as the Supervising
architect of St. Peter's church. Grandma
Moses did not start painting until she was 76.
Susan B. Anthony was head of the Suffragettes at the age of 80.
George Bernard Shaw fractured his leg at 96.
He fell out of a tree he was pruning.
Duke Ellington was passed over by the Pulitzer Prize Advisory
Committee at the age of 66. When
he heard what they had done he said, "God does not want me to
become too famous too early."
When we are too tired to contribute anymore -- then say that.
But do not assign inactivity to age.
This is a myth. It simply is not true.
When we stop growing fruit, Jesus mentioned that trees are
cut down and thrown into the fire.
This was not a threat. His
words described what happens to us when we decide to stop living.
We do this to ourselves. We
cannot blame age or anything else.
Baggage wears us down. Our inner world is always on display.
It is our silent communicator. If
we are honest with ourselves, every one of us wants a rich harvest of
all the good things of life. This
is not for ourselves; it is for the world that we sing.
Can we have this experience if we are less than authentic in how
we present ourselves? Can
we radiate Christ's spirit in us if we have baggage we feel compelled to
hide? Of course the answer
is, "No." Our spirit communicates everything whether we like it or not.
We cannot hide who we are even though many of us believe we
can.
Jesus never judged anyone for their mistakes.
He loved sinners. He
ate with sinners. The
people who gave him indigestion on a regular basis were the righteous.
When it came to people who were stumbling in the darkness, Jesus made
every effort to encourage them, he applauded their abilities and in
essence said, "Sail on, sail on!
Grow, multiply, spread your wings. Grow up! Take my words to the
ends of the earth. Teach
others how to love one another."
It is not who others are that matters. It does not matter what
others think about us. What
matters is who we have become. When
we live like children of the light, our arms are open, and our affirming
spirits allow others to stand in our circle of friendship.
Paul said, "So you must live like people who belong to the light, for it is this spirit that brings a rich harvest of every kind of goodness, righteousness and truth." Never forget that our loving spirit becomes the vehicle that makes everything else possible. When we are at peace with who we are, we enable others to be at peace as well. This is what Jesus sent us into the world to do. THE CONGREGATIONAL PRAYER We
thank you, O God, for your mercy and love.
Each week we feel strained by the limitations of our faith.
We have flashes of brilliance alongside moments that humble us.
Little things often bother us.
People disappoint us. We
find it a challenge to choose the high road from among all the available
paths. We often allow
discouragement to overcome the joy of how blessed we are.
How often we think of ourselves as self-sufficient when we are
not. Nurture us with the
splendor of springtime, the laughter and innocence of children and the
fellowship of friends who unfailingly support us.
May we learn to be at peace with others and ourselves.
Amen. THE PASTORAL PRAYER There
are so many times, O God, when our lives are touched deeply by what
happens to us. We sense the
renewal of life as nature emerges from its dormancy.
We have recognized that the cold winds and the frosty mornings
are slowly surrendering to the changing of the seasons. Likewise,
we are reminded how our lives are forever changing and that so often our
Good Fridays give birth to Easter mornings.
How grateful we are for hindsight which reinforces a wonderful
perspective, one that affirms us for holding on when the storms raged,
one that strengthens us for maintaining trust in you, and one that
teaches us the great truth that all things, both good and evil, will in
time pass from us. We pray this morning that our lives will be touched in a healing way because we have come together to celebrate our faith. As we evaluate the quality of our lives and sense the distance we have yet to grow, teach us to be gentle with ourselves. Teach us that those who search must be patient as well as open. Teach us that harmony with you can be achieved when we learn the uselessness of struggle and the beauty of stillness. Direct us today to carry your love into the world and give it away. We pray these thoughts through the spirit of Jesus as we now listen to the singing of his beautiful prayer . . .
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