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St. Matthew's United Methodist Church 14900 Annapolis Road, Bowie, MD 20715 (301) 262-1408 |
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"Finding Joy In Our
Routines"
Sermon Preached By Rev. Richard E. Stetler - December 8, 2002 Isaiah 40:1-11, Mark 1:1-8
The second candle on our Advent Wreath represents joy!
We appear to recognize this emotion rather well.
Most of us have recently seen these ridiculous commercials on
television where a wife or a husband creatively communicates to their
spouse that a surprise awaits them in the driveway or garage. Out there sits a new SUV with a large red bow on it.
Of course, the look on the spouse's face is one of utter joy.
Perhaps the most absurd story-line in such a commercial
appeared last year where the setting was breakfast on Christmas
morning. A college-aged
daughter was home over the seasonal break and the Dad and Mom were
already sitting at the table. As
the daughter joins them, her father says, "Your mother and I have
decided to give you a new CD player for Christmas, but it's
outside." They
pulled the kitchen curtains aside and there in the driveway is her CD
player which happens to be inside her new Lexus. . . . Right!
Most of us can identify with giving the keys to such a vehicle
to our daughter as a little "stocking stuffer"!
We tend to associate joy with a pleasant surprise, a jolting
experience that makes us overwhelmed with happiness.
A woman gets an engagement ring and she dances around the room.
A young man receives a letter of acceptance from the university
of his choice and he can hardly wait to share the news with his folks.
Yet we have lived long enough to understand that such joy is
momentary and may not last very long.
The experience of joy also depends on what else is happening in
our lives. For example, Christmas may be a challenge this year because
this is our first one without our mate.
Parents lament when their children are no longer communicating
to them. There are people getting pink slips at the office.
Joy can be missing when a threatening diagnosis distracts us from the
celebration of Jesus' birth. Sometimes people have allowed their faith
to slide into a place where it lacks relevancy.
Faith no longer works for them and there is no use pretending
otherwise. When we are sad, joy appears not to lighten our load.
Is there a joy that will help us rise above life's routine
melodramas? In the
opening chapter of Mark's Gospel, we read about John the Baptist
preaching and baptizing in the desert.
John was well aware that people needed to be drawn closer to
God. They were scattered
like sheep without a shepherd. Everyone
had their excuses as to why God was no longer sitting in the closest
row to the stage where their life drama was unfolding.
John must have been a persuasive preacher because people came
from Judea and Jerusalem to hear him.
People who are contented with their routines would feel little
motivation to venture into the desert to hear someone preach to them.
Our lesson tells us that they came in droves, confessing their
sins and being baptized. They wanted to hear about the God who had
been missing from their lives.
Historically, we know that John was living in a time where there
was not much happening to bring joy to anyone.
He had little clothing to wear.
He ate grasshoppers and wild honey for nourishment.
He was extremely upset about King Herod's arrogant life-style.
He was having an open affair with his brother's wife and had
brought her into the palace to live. The Jews found this intolerable and
John never missed an opportunity to condemn him publicly.
According to the Jewish historian, Josephus, "The word of
God had not been heard in Israel for over 400 years prior to the arrival
of John the Baptizer." Clearly,
little was happening in that part of the world that would produce joy in
people's lives.
What would motivate John to begin preaching during such a time?
The answer is that John had a vision of what was to come.
His excitement was fueled by anticipating and announcing the
arrival very soon of one who would make God visible. He told his
listeners, "The man who will come after me is much greater than I
am. I am able to baptize you with water, but he will baptize you
with the Holy Spirit." John
was steadfast in his conviction that God's Spirit had entered the world
in a form that humanity had never before seen.
If we review various chapters of our lives, we will see that
sustained joy occurred when we were looking beyond the present to what
was to come. Without a
vision of something wonderful coming, we can easily remain trapped by
our interpretation of what is happening to us now. Such an understanding
of life can be deadly. What
we fear may be an end to our road may only be a bend.
Without eager anticipation of what is to come, we often seal
our fate in the present by our own judgments.
If we are eagerly anticipating something wonderful, we are
sustained.
When we read the traditional Christmas story, we might imagine
that such an understanding supported Mary and Joseph during their
experience. We can see them making their way to Bethlehem near her due
date. We can imagine their resignation when told that the inn was
full. We can envision them
delivering their infant in an extremely inhospitable environment. They
seemingly accepted what was happening without making any judgments. Imagine having such power over our lives.
The joy that supported them was not found in their immediate
circumstances but in the knowledge that through them God was bringing
something into the world. Think
of how each of us would respond to all events if we understood our lives
in this perspective. So
often we do not see ourselves in this role or context.
Many of us believe that our lives are too routine to be
significant. We think,
"Who are we to bring something of God into the world?".
But think again! Often
we are very limited in our understanding.
Love has many forms. Think
about what Jesus asked us to be, e.g., the leaven for the loaf, the Good
Samaritan, etc. Each time
we engage in such an activity, we are bringing God into our world.
One day a woman called me about a lot of towels and washcloths
she wanted to give away. It
just so happened that I knew a social worker who was involved in
settling a family into a new residence, a family who had virtually
nothing. Debbie took these
articles to this family and I received a beautiful thank you note from
the mother which I forwarded to the donor.
The woman who made the gift called me.
She said, "I am so glad you sent me that note. When something so simple as old towels and washcloths mean so
much to a family with very little, it makes me want to empty my whole
house and give it to them." That
woman brought God into the world for a family of strangers, a family who
believed that no one cared. Even
had I not sent the note to the donor, love would have become visible in
the family who had received.
Recently many of us went shopping for kids that we will never
meet. We either bought a
number of useful items for children whose parents are in jail or we
purchased a sweatshirt for children who live in families operating in or
around poverty levels. We know that the new member's class has been
collecting children's clothing for Martha's Closet.
What we do not know is what will happen as a result.
We do not realize that we are bringing something of God into
their world.
Before Jim and Marge Gribble moved to the Eastern Shore, they
were members of St. Matthew's. Marge
worked at the Prince George's County Detention Center.
She was on the inside when our Christmas stockings were
distributed to the families. She
told me that when the children saw their names printed on the individual
stockings, the experience of receiving them became very personal.
It became extremely important to them that someone knew their
names.
When we take our teddy bears around to the various senior
centers, the staff frequently tells us stories about how our bears
appear to energize the residence. They
do not feel as alone when they have their bear. Some of our bears
accompany patients as they enter the operating room for surgery.
They become the first thing they hold on to as they lie in the
recovery room. Yet suppose
we knew none of these stories. Love
would have still entered the lives of strangers because we made those
bears possible.
John the Baptist was motivated to preach because of his vision.
He was murdered before he knew what his role had been. We have
the joy of taking into the world what John could only announce was
coming. No deed done in
love is ever wasted because God is the one using each of them to heal
lives as tomorrow is fashioned. Timeless
joy comes in knowing that we are the vehicles of God's creativity.
Life can be boring and routine.
A stay-at-home Mom can talk herself into being starved for
intellectual stimulation. A middle management executive can feel
undervalued and not appreciated. A
retiree may agonize over what he accomplished during his career. What
transforms every life without exception is when we realize that we are a
valuable part of an expansion of God's creativity that is well beyond
our comprehension to grasp.
When we hold this vision, stay-at-home mothers can realize that
they are preparing their children to be tomorrow's saviors.
Middle management executives can sense that they are making
decisions that were influencing the development of something like the
Hubble Telescope. Retirees
can become aware that they were on the ground floor of something like
stem cell research that could lead to cures that may save thousands of
lives from premature deaths.
With all of this being said, the results we cherish and savor
today are nothing compared to the future God creates with what each of
us brings into the world. This
understanding can and will produce timeless joy in us.
Those of us who think that our lives do not count for much
remain unaware of the power we possess each time we bring something of
God into the world, something every bit as vital as John the Baptist's
words or Mary and Joseph's infant son.
After all, would the life and teachings of Jesus exist today
had no one brought a written record of them into our world? Our faithful discipleship allows God's essence to mutate into millions of different forms as we bring love into the world. When we understand our role, absolutely nothing can remain routine. When we know this, everything we do for another person has purpose. Knowing this helps us find timeless joy in what we typically call routine. THE CONGREGATIONAL PRAYER Eternal yet always
present God, as we live in a world that constantly keeps tensions
swirling around us, we are grateful for these moments.
Worship stills our minds. Our
experience together helps us focus on the essentials for living. When Jesus said, "Do this in remembrance of me," he
knew how easily we can wander from his Kingdom. Give us the grace to share the experience of our church
family with others. As our
spirits are nourished, help us reveal more of your kingdom. Amen. THE PASTORAL PRAYER As we enter our
worship experience this morning, we come from a variety of experiences.
Some of us have just had surgery.
Some of us have had the joy of no school for two days.
Some of us have experienced the loss of a loved one.
Even though this is Advent, the odd and unexpected experiences of
life never stop happening to us. This season
comes around every year and we are seldom prepared for all that
occasionally comes with it -- pulling us, distracting us, making us
doubt, or surprising us, healing us and helping us to feel loved.
None of us share these experiences alone, even though we often
feel that way. Touch us
this morning with the sense of community.
We can sit alone in our pews while never knowing what is
happening in the lives of those sitting next to us.
Bless them, Lord. Help
each of us to understand that we are not alone. Help
us realize that we are loved and that you created us to love. As we continue
our walk into Advent, may each of us remain sensitized by the specific
role Jesus asked us to play in your world.
As we make his message visible, we bring a part of you into the
lives of others. May each
of us find enormous comfort and peace in realizing that by bringing your
spirit into the lives of others, we are as important as Mary and Joseph
who brought Jesus into the world. We
pray these thoughts through the spirit of Jesus, who taught us to say
when we pray . . . [Prayer] |
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